u can c love from different sides, like most ppl are seeing love as an intrapersonal thing here. but u can also see it on a evolutionairy or biological base. example: we (men) see woman like creatures who are destined 2 be loved and as a concequence 2 make children etc. there for our mind is focused on a way how we look against women. we men judge womens body's on health and beautiness. If some particular girl has those things wich are fit for some particular boy, then the boy could love this girl. (keep in mind that this is only based on physical aspects). On the contrary, women judge men like creatures who possibly could be fit 2 take good care of her children. women judge more on personality in this theory. if those 2 are matches, then there will be sweet love! ;>
altough there are 5 basic personality dimensions who make people love each other: openness, extraversion, conscientiousness, agreeableness and neuroticism. but i wouldn't go further in that cuz it's a bit off the subject

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anyway, as i said @ the beginning, love could not only be a personal thing wich make u happy, love could also be terrible if it doesn't match! and if it does match, how can u be certain that anything about your partner is fit for you? they say love could be blind @ the beginning of a relationship. people see through the bad habbits or qualitys etc of their partner.. @ this beginning it's true happiness, but it doesn't last long in many cases. if you'd only c how the world is changed @ statistics of divorcion etc. in the past years u may conclude that more people are divorcing becuz of what they want, and not how society or people in their nearby environment look against it.
so, my question is: what is love? is it really how people c it? is love smtg like faith if u meet you're (in your opinion) true love? and by how far could u say your subjectiveness plays a part about liking a partner in a certain way?
lol, anyways i'm tired of all this chit chat -,- bb